Imperfections

Life, your best friend, clergy, parents are not perfect, hard to accept, there it is- imperfections everywhere! Most of us will say, it’s ok no one is perfect don’t live in fantasy land. Imperfections bring disappointment and trust issues take over. Why bother? We’re mad we feel betrayed. Right? What do we do? In my 20’s & 30’s I shut the door, 40-50’s hmm that’s surprising, 60-70 more tolerant. Borrowing words from a song,” Being a kinder gentler soul, giving forgiveness,” open us to the small moments of perfection in our lives. The little things become the big things. We seem to be made to carry on that’s what we do…

Author: plantgirl42

I lost my best friend in October 2017 at 67 retirement for a year and half. We were married for 41 years together for 44. I very active walk, swim, volunteer for 2 organizations. I have 2 adult children and a a 14 dog a lab. On most days I'm ok but others my grief takes over. Being a widow is lonely and much harder than I ever imagined. I hope that my blog will help others that have been left behind. View all posts by plantgirl42